Episode 79

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13th Aug 2025

The Person You THINK You Are Is Sabotaging Your Relationships

In this episode, I engage in a deep and thought-provoking conversation with relationship and dating expert Flora Ong. We explore the intricate dynamics of love, dating, and the barriers that often prevent individuals, particularly women, from achieving the fulfilling relationships they desire.

Flora shares her personal journey, detailing her own experiences with love, loss, and self-discovery. After a series of life-altering events, including her father's illness and her subsequent divorce, she embarked on a path of personal development that ultimately led her to become a dating coach. Her story serves as a powerful reminder that transformation is possible, even after hardship.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- (04:51) The Missing Link in Relationships

- (10:13) Core Wounds and Attachment Styles

- (20:13) Processing Emotions

- (32:09) Finding Authenticity

- (39:11) The Cycle of Dating Challenges

- (41:00) Awareness and Change

RESOURCES

Check out my How to Attract Devoted Masculine Men Masterclass HERE 

My FREE eBook The Magnetic Woman

App rec: Bumble

Feminine Embodiment HERE

CONNECT WITH CHARLENE 

On Instagram @mscharlenebyars 

On YouTube @chosentraining

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CONNECT WITH FLORA

On Instagram HERE

Her Links HERE

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About the Podcast

Love Stories
Love Stories highlights the relationship journeys of successful, modern-day women and the trials they’ve overcome in pursuit of finding their aligned partner. Through actionable tips, constructive advice and my deeply passionate pep talks, you will leave feeling confident and empowered to choose the right man, communicate intimately, and connect to your full feminine power.

It’s time to release your old patterns and embrace a new shift into Chapter One of your love story. Hosted by Charlene Byars, a certified empowerment coach and relationship expert.

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Charlene Byars

I'm Charlene, a dating and relationship expert. I'm also a Certified Empowerment Coach and Women’s Revolutionary Mentor. It’s my job to hold space for you while you move through the spaces of empowerment. Whether it’s old patterns that you want to be free of, or old beliefs that need to be let go of, I am here assist you in finding your true joy. Because there is no reason for you to live any other way than how you truly want your life to be.